A few years ago, if you had told me that my son would be interested in helping out in the kitchen and cooking with me, I would have been skeptical. He wasn't one of those kids who jumped at the chance to get his hands dirty in the kitchen. But I have to say that things have changed quite a bit.
Wanting to share one of my interests with him, I've been luring him into the kitchen, bit by bit, in the last couple of years. And now, having him there, helping me crack some eggs or completing a whole recipe together, is not uncommon. He might not have a big passion for cooking or baking but I think he's figured out that working/playing in the kitchen can be a lot of fun. I like to think that he learns a little something in the process when we make something together, and I know he appreciates the sense of accomplishment and the tasty reward at the end!
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| Spaghetti Carbonara: one of the simple dishes my little guy and I made together this summer |
So this summer, I made a goal. I wanted to get the little guy in the kitchen for a few cooking "sessions". Beyond one-off projects or just stepping in to help me whisk something or to spread a batter here and there, I wanted to teach him how to make a few simple dishes from beginning to end. We get to spend time together (cooking and eating) and longer-term, I hope that by cooking more and more, he'll be able to make basic meals for himself down the line as an adult.
Well, the summer flew by fast. It can be hard to carve out time for "cooking lessons" but we managed when I look back at it. As I've posted before, we were in the kitchen making fun things like pudding pops and grilled chocolate sandwiches but we also collaborated on a few others, including some savory dishes. The trick was finding easy and relatively quick dishes that the little one would enjoy because then there'd be motivation to keep going. I think we did all right since he was a big fan of everything he cooked up.
So you know how moms do - we talk about our kids! In that spirit, please bear with me as I share some of the cooking sessions I had with my little guy this summer...
Spaghetti Carbonara
One of the dishes we cooked together this summer was spaghetti carbonara. I think I was initially inspired to include this in our cooking sessions by a post I read over at The Kitchn but I can't remember exactly. What I do know is I wanted to make a few savory dishes with the little one and spaghetti carbonara is one of my favorite things to eat. My husband and I have had many a date night over a big bowl of it with a little salad on the side.
The little one is ironically not generally a big pasta-lover (ironic because his mother is a carb fiend) but I know he likes this because I've made it on occasion for all of us. I thought it would be a quick, simple, yet delicious meal to make together. My son is a huge fan of bacon (though I use pancetta in my spaghetti carbonara but this gave him a chance to compare the two) and who can resist the simplicity of that creamy, salty sauce against the hearty pasta.
The great thing about this recipe - it's easy! I wanted to show the little guy that he could make a delicious dinner with a few ingredients. At the same time, cooking this stretched us. This was the first time I let him cook over the burner and well, really cook! You can trust that I was standing no more than half a step away from him at all times with the stove on and real cooking going on!
Okay, I hovered...a lot!
But before we know it, he couldn't believe we were done and the pasta was being tossed and ready for dinner.
And the best part? He loved the result. Of course, his dad and I were major cheerleaders (not a tough job) and helped him polish off every last bite. It went down real easy! This was one of my son's favorites from the summer cooking sessions...so it was a huge success.
Garlic Bread
When I was making a list of possibilities for these cooking sessions, I quickly thought of garlic bread because my boy is crazy for it! It's one of those cases where he'll just fill up on garlic bread if it's on the table. I usually buy garlic bread from a local bakery but decided we would learn to make it from scratch together.
For the most part, we got a workout trying to squeeze the garlic out of our garlic press! A little stirring to mix the garlic paste with some olive oil and butter, and we were ready to spread the mixture onto a crusty baguette. We enjoyed the first loaf with his favorite meat sauce (Ina Garten's weeknight bolognese that we have Marie @ little kitchie to thank for!) for dinner one night.
You're going to see a pattern...we loved our garlic bread. What's not to love about garlic bread, particularly when it's made with your kiddo. We've whipped this up twice now and it's something nice to stock in the freezer. From now on, we have our "house" garlic bread to revert to.
Eggs!
I have often proclaimed my love of eggs. I always have a dozen or two in the fridge and I cook and eat eggs pretty much on a daily basis.
When my son was young, a toddler, he had a sensitivity to eggs. He had no problems eating anything made with eggs (e.g., bread, cakes) but if he ate pieces of whole egg, he would "coincidentally" throw up (sorry for the details!) and get a pink ring around his mouth. So I stayed away from cooking eggs for him for a long time. Then, at some point a few years ago, that sensitivity disappeared and as it turns out, he's also quite fond of eggs - fried, scrambled, etc.
Maybe because it's one of my favorite things or because I consider eggs a great basic 'survival' food, one of the first things I ever taught my son how to do, cooking-wise, was to crack eggs. We have progressed from egg splattered onto our faces (and all over the table) during the first attempts to a very proficient egg-cracker now. It makes a mom so proud! *Tip: in the beginning, use big/huge bowls to crack eggs or to stir things around in (same with skillets when cooking).
So believe me, we are constantly cracking eggs in our house and the little one is my best helper. One day, I decided we'd do a very quick cooking lesson and simply learn how to scramble eggs in a skillet and throw in a few bits of ham to bulk it up. That, with a piece of toast, made a simple lunch and is hopefully something easy he can make for himself at some point down the line. I wanted to give him the idea that it isn't hard to fix yourself something nutritious and tasty to eat. Sometimes, the most basic and humblest of foods can be the best.
Chocolate Chip Cookies for 2
I bake a lot (obviously) and the little one has made plenty of appearances in those endeavors. I wanted to make sure we did some cooking in addition to baking this summer but of course, we don't stray far from the sweet side of life for long.
So on the sweet side, we made chocolate chip cookies for 2. I used this recipe from No. 2 Pencil that I pinned a long time ago. I like it because the small scale lets us do everything by hand and get more involved that way than when the mixer does all the work.
In no time, there were generous chocolate chip cookies. These were for the chef and his dad, who appreciated them to no end!
And it's true what they say about kids being enthusiastic about food they helped prepare. The cookies were on the soft side and I was afraid he wouldn't like them much but he was full of praise for his cookie, which gave me a good chuckle.
Baking is definitely a great thing to do with kids. Not only is the result good to eat but baking allows for plenty of measuring, stirring and playing, and you don't need to worry about flames or boiling water and whatnot as you often do with cooking. My son's been in the kitchen lately doing things like learning how to make his favorite banana muffins and we've done quirky things like chocolate mug cakes (which I called "magic cake"). Things like mug cakes are fun because they're fast and there's a bit of mystery involved. Kids love a plot and being able to make a cake in a cup, in the microwave, in a few minutes, definitely qualifies.
Baked Chicken Tenders
I had wanted to make baked fish sticks with my son but we're not a big cold cereal family so I didn't want to buy a large box of cornflakes for the project and couldn't find one of those small individual-serving boxes of the plain cereal. So I switched over to baked chicken tenders instead. Almost every kid loves chicken tenders and my son is no exception.
I love this baked "fried" chicken recipe and make it often for dinner so I decided to use that recipe as a foundation. Instead of chicken thighs, we used chicken tenders. Next time, I might cut the chicken up into bite size chunks and we can make "nuggets."
This recipe really made me realize how much more comfortable my son is in the kitchen now. I remember years ago - maybe when he was four - I recruited him to roll meatballs with me...I always laugh thinking about how grossed out he was at touching the raw meat. Now, he barely flinches. Barely...
We use panko breadcrumbs so we learned what that was and the whole idea of making the wet base and dredging the chicken in steps. I think, overall, he's been pretty amazed by how easy many recipes are. I often get "that's it? that's all we have to do..." and I'm hoping that the simple recipes encourage him to continue to want to cook in the kitchen.
This recent dinner of baked chicken tenders, with baked steak "fries", was a big hit. We love to say everything "sold out" and those chicken tenders disappeared quick!
So it's been a pretty busy summer! I'm grateful for all the time we got to spend together and the time spent in the kitchen and then sitting down at the table with my fellas are among my very favorite.
In thinking about these summer cooking sessions and all the cooking projects my son and I have dabbled in - from "pancakes" to pretzels, donuts to cakes (and even marshmallow treats) - I'm really glad I stuck with it and encouraged him to cook and bake with me little by little. Even if your child isn't innately enthusiastic about cooking, I encourage you to keep that kitchen door open. It's truly worth the effort and you might be amazed by how interest develops and how natural it may become to have a little helper on standby.
Recipe:
I'll leave you with this spaghetti carbonara recipe below. I've been pulling out the well-worn written recipe - something I scribbled down long ago but remember it came from Tyler Florence - and making it for years. I love the simplicity and deliciousness of it. It isn't too rich but just luxurious enough to satisfy.
Spaghetti Carbonara
Adapted from Tyler Florence
- Serves 4 to 6 -
1 lb. dry spaghetti (I like the De Cecco brand)
2 large eggs (preferably organic or farm-fresh, if possible)
1 cup freshly grated Parmigiano-Reggiano cheese
4 large garlic cloves, grated or pressed through a garlic press
Coarse black pepper and salt
Bring a large pot of water to boil. Salt water generously and cook pasta until al dente, as per package instructions.
In a mixing bowl, whisk eggs and parmesan cheese (and a bit of black pepper) together until there are no lumps.
As pasta cooks, heat olive oil in a large pan or deep skillet over medium-heat. Add pancetta and cook until fat is rendered and pancetta is just beginning to crisp, about 3 minutes. Add garlic and stir together for about 1 minute. Add hot pasta into the pan and stir well for about a minute to thoroughly combine. Remove the pan from the heat, add the egg and cheese mixture and stir to combine. (Mixing off-heat and stirring the mixtures quickly together will cook the eggs without scrambling them.) Take some pasta cooking water (it may take 1/4 to 1/2 cup) to thin out the sauce a bit. Add a generous sprinkle of freshly ground pepper. Taste, and adjust for salt and pepper, as needed.
Plate pasta into bowls and serve immediately while it's hot.
So you know how moms do - we talk about our kids! In that spirit, please bear with me as I share some of the cooking sessions I had with my little guy this summer...
Spaghetti Carbonara
The little one is ironically not generally a big pasta-lover (ironic because his mother is a carb fiend) but I know he likes this because I've made it on occasion for all of us. I thought it would be a quick, simple, yet delicious meal to make together. My son is a huge fan of bacon (though I use pancetta in my spaghetti carbonara but this gave him a chance to compare the two) and who can resist the simplicity of that creamy, salty sauce against the hearty pasta.
Garlic Bread
You're going to see a pattern...we loved our garlic bread. What's not to love about garlic bread, particularly when it's made with your kiddo. We've whipped this up twice now and it's something nice to stock in the freezer. From now on, we have our "house" garlic bread to revert to.
Eggs!
I have often proclaimed my love of eggs. I always have a dozen or two in the fridge and I cook and eat eggs pretty much on a daily basis.
When my son was young, a toddler, he had a sensitivity to eggs. He had no problems eating anything made with eggs (e.g., bread, cakes) but if he ate pieces of whole egg, he would "coincidentally" throw up (sorry for the details!) and get a pink ring around his mouth. So I stayed away from cooking eggs for him for a long time. Then, at some point a few years ago, that sensitivity disappeared and as it turns out, he's also quite fond of eggs - fried, scrambled, etc.
Chocolate Chip Cookies for 2
So on the sweet side, we made chocolate chip cookies for 2. I used this recipe from No. 2 Pencil that I pinned a long time ago. I like it because the small scale lets us do everything by hand and get more involved that way than when the mixer does all the work.
Baking is definitely a great thing to do with kids. Not only is the result good to eat but baking allows for plenty of measuring, stirring and playing, and you don't need to worry about flames or boiling water and whatnot as you often do with cooking. My son's been in the kitchen lately doing things like learning how to make his favorite banana muffins and we've done quirky things like chocolate mug cakes (which I called "magic cake"). Things like mug cakes are fun because they're fast and there's a bit of mystery involved. Kids love a plot and being able to make a cake in a cup, in the microwave, in a few minutes, definitely qualifies.
Baked Chicken Tenders
I love this baked "fried" chicken recipe and make it often for dinner so I decided to use that recipe as a foundation. Instead of chicken thighs, we used chicken tenders. Next time, I might cut the chicken up into bite size chunks and we can make "nuggets."
So it's been a pretty busy summer! I'm grateful for all the time we got to spend together and the time spent in the kitchen and then sitting down at the table with my fellas are among my very favorite.
In thinking about these summer cooking sessions and all the cooking projects my son and I have dabbled in - from "pancakes" to pretzels, donuts to cakes (and even marshmallow treats) - I'm really glad I stuck with it and encouraged him to cook and bake with me little by little. Even if your child isn't innately enthusiastic about cooking, I encourage you to keep that kitchen door open. It's truly worth the effort and you might be amazed by how interest develops and how natural it may become to have a little helper on standby.
Thanks for indulging in this mom's little show-and-tell today!
(And special thanks to my son, Jalen, for all the fun times in the kitchen this summer! You're a good sport and we ate well thanks to you, kiddo!)
Recipe:
I'll leave you with this spaghetti carbonara recipe below. I've been pulling out the well-worn written recipe - something I scribbled down long ago but remember it came from Tyler Florence - and making it for years. I love the simplicity and deliciousness of it. It isn't too rich but just luxurious enough to satisfy.
Spaghetti Carbonara
Adapted from Tyler Florence
- Serves 4 to 6 -
1 lb. dry spaghetti (I like the De Cecco brand)
2 large eggs (preferably organic or farm-fresh, if possible)
1 cup freshly grated Parmigiano-Reggiano cheese
2 tablespoons extra-virgin olive oil
4 ounces pancetta, sliced into cubes4 large garlic cloves, grated or pressed through a garlic press
Coarse black pepper and salt
Bring a large pot of water to boil. Salt water generously and cook pasta until al dente, as per package instructions.
In a mixing bowl, whisk eggs and parmesan cheese (and a bit of black pepper) together until there are no lumps.
As pasta cooks, heat olive oil in a large pan or deep skillet over medium-heat. Add pancetta and cook until fat is rendered and pancetta is just beginning to crisp, about 3 minutes. Add garlic and stir together for about 1 minute. Add hot pasta into the pan and stir well for about a minute to thoroughly combine. Remove the pan from the heat, add the egg and cheese mixture and stir to combine. (Mixing off-heat and stirring the mixtures quickly together will cook the eggs without scrambling them.) Take some pasta cooking water (it may take 1/4 to 1/2 cup) to thin out the sauce a bit. Add a generous sprinkle of freshly ground pepper. Taste, and adjust for salt and pepper, as needed.
Plate pasta into bowls and serve immediately while it's hot.
